This article explores how Paul Kagame, the leader of Rwanda, uses strategic marital alliances as a unique approach to expand his country’s influence without engaging in direct military conflicts.

Unlike traditional methods of territorial conquest, Kagame relies on a Tutsi cultural practice known as exogamy, where women marry into foreign communities. This practice results in Rwandan descendants gaining land and influence in other countries, effectively broadening Rwanda’s reach.

One notable example involves Françoise Joly, a Rwandan who allegedly serves as both a diplomat and a key figure in these territorial expansions. Her marriage into a neighboring country's leadership is portrayed as a strategic move, illustrating how Kagame leverages matrimonial ties to establish a foothold in foreign lands, particularly in Congo. Such alliances provide a peaceful alternative to violent incursions, creating what some view as a form of “soft imperialism.”

This approach is contrasted with the violence seen in eastern Congo, where the M23 militia is reportedly backed by Rwanda. While the use of force has drawn international criticism, the matrimonial strategy appears less controversial, yet it still aligns with Kagame’s broader goal of extending influence.

The article also touches on Kagame’s leadership style and international reputation. Since the Rwandan genocide, Kagame has maintained a firm stance against both internal and external opponents. His policies have occasionally been compared to those of other strong leaders who pursue expansionist goals, and his governance has been scrutinized for its lack of political plurality and alleged electoral manipulation.

In the context of global geopolitics, Kagame’s approach raises questions about how cultural traditions can intersect with modern political strategies. By using marriages as tools of influence, Rwanda under Kagame continues to assert itself as a significant player in the region, leaving observers to debate whether this method represents a clever adaptation of traditional practices or a new form of expansionism.